Our parents have told us JUST SAY NO. A legal study group I'm in found just the same works in the courts...in legal terms... at least so far. What seems to have real punch is the phrase: "I do not accept your offer nor do I consent to this proceeding . I demand you provide me with an indemnity bond."
As was passed to me SAY NOTHING ELSE !!! There was a case of folks in Puerto Rico that have been battling for their children for over 9 years !!! This has seemingly shut them down cold !!!